04-03-2017, 05:49 PM
No, I am not interested in entering a private chat with either of you as BORG tends to edit then share. So I will answer here.
A healthy person maintains control over themselves and doesn't feel a great need to force themselves on others, to be in control of others. A psychopath can't be happy with controlling hirself - - hir has to control others. In some circumstances, simple control is not enough, they have to HURT the other person. Sadistic psychopaths can hurt others financially, emotionally, physically... it brings them joy to know they caused that pain.
Are ALL of them totally unhappy all the time? No, but even a period of time in their lives could have set up a habit that just feels good to them.
(Pam, I don't know if they like pain during sex but suspect your good friend Laurence might help you with that one.)
Since my energy in this case is spent educating people to the truth, encouraging those entrusted to solving this to do better, trying to raise funds to help advance the DNA investigation - - - - - and I am NOT trying to hurt ANYONE while I do that - - I don't think I am at all the same as those who have total disregard for the facts and just go about trying to hurt the efforts of others to see this solved.
Am I calling YOU a psychopath? Nope. I have my questions but honestly don't care enough about either of you, or the others, to take my focus off the case - - that trumps all beyond my family.
Going to be hard to copy and paste this and change it. But feel free to copy and pasts as it is. I have no problem with that. Hope I answered your question. No private chats.
A healthy person maintains control over themselves and doesn't feel a great need to force themselves on others, to be in control of others. A psychopath can't be happy with controlling hirself - - hir has to control others. In some circumstances, simple control is not enough, they have to HURT the other person. Sadistic psychopaths can hurt others financially, emotionally, physically... it brings them joy to know they caused that pain.
Are ALL of them totally unhappy all the time? No, but even a period of time in their lives could have set up a habit that just feels good to them.
(Pam, I don't know if they like pain during sex but suspect your good friend Laurence might help you with that one.)
Since my energy in this case is spent educating people to the truth, encouraging those entrusted to solving this to do better, trying to raise funds to help advance the DNA investigation - - - - - and I am NOT trying to hurt ANYONE while I do that - - I don't think I am at all the same as those who have total disregard for the facts and just go about trying to hurt the efforts of others to see this solved.
Am I calling YOU a psychopath? Nope. I have my questions but honestly don't care enough about either of you, or the others, to take my focus off the case - - that trumps all beyond my family.
Going to be hard to copy and paste this and change it. But feel free to copy and pasts as it is. I have no problem with that. Hope I answered your question. No private chats.